change in personality
yes change in personality is needed. For the past few weeks all I've been hearing from friends or reading in blogs is "i'm changing" or "what the hell is happening to me" or "I'm going through a weird phase".
I guess it's a transitional period from smth to another. In some ppls case it's from a job to a new job. I guess in my case, it was from AIESEC to work. I had to fight a lot till I could accommodate in the new environment. The problem is that a negative attitude spontaneously occur, then by time things get better till a new thing comes up :-)
Now the problem is when this negative attitude occurs and comes between you and your best friend, that's when you should start taking actions towards it and re-evaluate everything.
Life isn't easy but we're smarter ;-)
3 Comments:
how true. I think with all of us its a transition from AIESEC to work, and also from uni to work; realizing that you dont have the energy nor the time to keep up with everyone like you used to and then blaming yourself for it and even sometimes assuming you are too selfish when in fact its just the circle of life. None of our parents are in touch with as many people as we wish right now to stay in touch with. We are finding it difficult to accept that I think. We do not WANT to accept these changes and we blame the part of us which actually does want to accept it. Its a fact of life that the 20s are the toughest years of our lives, whomever told me that years ago was very right.
Mon Sep 03, 02:00:00 AM
very true ya mayouy.. but now i feel like we're trying to cinvince ourselves more with it rather than accepting it.. i'm so confused now:-))
Tue Sep 04, 06:04:00 AM
hahaha la2 la2 no need to be confused. Just always remind yourself that its natural for you to feel a change or else there would be no such thing as "growing up". Just embrace it and remember that no matter what you can make changes in your life. Nothing is ever final :)
Thu Sep 06, 02:14:00 AM
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